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How To Compliment A Girl And Make Her Blush

Knowing how to compliment a girl is pretty important when you’re trying to make a lasting impression. After all, a compliment shows that you’ve noticed how nice a woman she really is.

There are many ways to compliment a girl, and they’re always going to sound nice.

Wouldn’t you appreciate it if you took a lot of time to dress well and your date complimented you on how nice you look?

It feels good, doesn’t it? Your date did notice the fact that you’ve cleaned up.

And just like that, girls love to be complimented too.

In fact, women love compliments a lot more than men do.

How to compliment a girl

One of the first things you should know about complimenting a girl is to be sincere.

Don’t just say something nice because you read it in a book or your friend texted you a few complimentary ques.

Be genuine when you compliment a girl, and if she does see the sincerity in your eyes, she’ll be more flattered and will appreciate your compliment.

If you’re just playing out rehearsed compliments, she would only feel uncomfortable and annoyed when she realizes you’re just trying to compliment her to get your way into her pants.

To compliment a girl, you need to understand the different ways you can do it, while flattering her at the same time.

Compliment a girl for how beautiful she looks

This is time tested and perfect all year round. You obviously know your date looks beautiful, or you wouldn’t be with her yes, we know men are shallow*. So when you finally do meet her at the date, compliment her on how beautiful/cute/gorgeous/pretty she looks. How can you not appreciate such a wonderful woman when she’s taken so much of an effort to look cute as a button just for you?

Stare at her often

Stare at her often when you’re on a date with her. It’s one of the best compliments a guy can ever give a girl. This does come naturally when you’re smitten by a beautiful girl who's out on a date with you, but remember this as one of those quiet compliments.

If you can’t help staring at a girl and getting lost in her eyes or her beauty, it just shows how happy you are to be with her. And yeah, you could also tell her how happy she makes you feel. That’s another great compliment for a girl.

Compliment her with words

One of the best ways in knowing how to compliment a girl is to do it with words. Not the spoken ones, the written ones.

Love stories and poems have been written by men to profess their love for their sweetheart. It would be really flattering if you could write a poem, but your girlfriend would definitely settle for something you’re capable of doing, and that’s sending a sweet text after the date or picking a beautiful card to profess your feelings for her.

Compliment her for her skills

Is she a ravishing karaoke singer or someone who knows her fine wine? Compliment her for that!

Most men assume girls don’t like to be complimented for anything other their appearance, but that’s just not true! As a matter of fact, women are so accustomed to being complimented only for their good looks that it doesn’t soften their heart as much as a character compliment could.

So the next time you’re out with your woman and she shows off one of her great skills, whatever it may be, compliment her if it awes you.

Compliment her femininity

Compliment her feminine side like kindness, her caring nature, the way she smiles and makes time stand still, the cute thing she does with her hair, or the way she fans herself when she’s feeling hot and the blushing awkward faces she makes when you compliment her.

Knowing how to compliment a girl for her femininity is such a beautiful way to acknowledge her beauty and her sweet ways without really talking about her physical attributes.

Compliment a girl with your chivalry

Men have always been acknowledged as the protectors. When you’re out on a date, make your date feel special and well taken care of. Pull her seat back for her, assist her whenever she needs assistance and pay attention to her every whim and fancy. Being chivalrous and ensuring that the girl with you is having a perfect time is one of the best ways to silently compliment the girl you’re with.

And you can rest assured on this, if you’re chivalrous and warm during the date, she’ll feel warm and fuzzy all throughout the date too!

Things to know before you compliment a girl

#1 If you’re ever confused about complimenting a girl, some of the best aspects to compliment a girl are her eyes, hair, lips, her fragrance and her voice. It’s safe, and yet, very personal. It’s hard for any girl to forget a compliment that involves these aspects.

#2 Don’t ever compliment her girlie parts. You may be tempted to say “you look so $exy” or “I love the way you fit that tee shirt”, but it’s just too physical, especially during the first date or two. You can always use those $exy lines once you’ve grown closer and she trusts you better.

#3 The best compliments are the spontaneous ones. To understand how to compliment a girl sincerely, you always need to remember this pointer. The very instant you lay eyeson her, what do you think? As long as it’s not overly $exual, it’s definitely going to be a truthful and sincere compliment.

Understand how to compliment a girl and use these ideas the next time you’re with the woman you like. It’ll definitely make her feel special, loved and a lot happier.

11 Moves To Seduce A Woman And Get Her In Bed With You!

It can’t get easier than this! Just read these 11 moves and you’ll surely know how to seduce a woman and get her in bed even before she realizes it.

Are you infatuated by a sexy friend?

Or do you find a girl you see occasionally completely, irresistibly $exy?

It doesn’t matter whether you know her already or she’s a complete stranger.

If you want to seduce a woman, all you need to understand are a few things about how attraction works, and learn to use it in your favor.

Seducing a girl and the things you need to know

Firstly, if you want to seduce a girl or even make her like you, you need to be a great guy who can get the girl’s attention.

If you can’t be the kind of guy who can impress a girl easily, you may still be able to seduce the girl you like, but it’ll be a lot harder to win her flirty attention.

If you can be the kind of guy that girls want and desire, it makes seducing them as easy as a walk in the park.

But even if you aren’t that kind of a guy, try these steps.

After all, it’ll only take a couple of steps to know if you’re going to end up in bed with her. So what’s the harm in trying, right?

All women have their own preferences when it comes to dating a guy or making out with him, but if you keep it mysterious and play your cards right, you could seduce any woman you like and make her want to sleep with you within a few days!

How to seduce a woman before she even realizes it!

Women aren’t difficult to read. Most guys just go wrong while trying to seduce a girl because they try too hard and blow their chances, say all the wrong things at the wrong time, or they make their intentions clear too early into the flirting stage.

If you want to know how to seduce a woman, the first thing you need to focus on is building the $exual chemistry. Don’t make it obvious that you’re trying to get her in bed. Make her wonder what’s on your mind.

And while she’s still wondering about your intentions, you can sneak past her defenses and make her want you and desire you $exually.

11 smooth moves to seduce a woman and get her in bed

Just follow these 11 really simple moves, and you’ll surely be in a great position to seduce her and get her in bed.

Use these moves one step at a time, and as long as you play your cards right, she’d be in bed with you even if there are several other guys trying to get her attention at the same time!

#1 Get close to her. If you want to seduce a girl, the first thing you need to do is get to know her better. Don’t come on too strong or she’d feel threatened or find you too easy to get, and may get bored of you.

Talk to her and get to know her better. Text her now and then, and be warm and friendly. Don’t hit on her just yet, but don’t behave like a doormat either!

#2 Be likeable. This is a pretty important stage. And this is where you can actually tell if she’s warming up to you or shrinking away from you. As you talk to her now and then, try to get to know more about her and the things she likes.

Text her or talk to her frequently, and try to bond over something both of you find interesting. If the things you say seem to be working its magic, she’d start to enjoy your chats and your texts and keep in touch with you.

But if you come across as a bore, she may start to distance herself from you. She may avoid responding to your texts, or she may take hours to respond to you. And eventually, she may just get bored and avoid you completely. If you ever notice that she takes a while to get back to you, you really need to talk about something else to keep things interesting.

#3 Get active at night. The best way to get and intimate with a girl is by texting her late at night, or by calling her up when she’s in bed. Start by texting late in the evening to begin with, and within a day or two, she may be comfortable enough to text you or speak with you late into the night even if she’s uncomfortable with the idea at first.

Keep the first couple of texting conversations clean, and flirt casually without making it obvious that you’re trying to get her to fall for you. Right now, all you need to do is get closer to her and make her flirt back with you. Don’t try to get into her pants already, or there’s a chance you may blow the whole thing off!

#4 Live two lives. This is where you need to confuse her. Each time you speak with her at night or text her, be flirty and n*ughty. But when you meet her during the day, don’t talk about the n*ughty texts at all, unless she talks about it*which means she really likes the flirty texts!

Completely avoid talking about the texts when there are other friends around. But flirt with her when it’s just the both of you. By doing this, you’d make her convince herself that there’s already a secret passionate something brewing between the both of you, because no one else knows what’s going on but the both of you. Who doesn’t love a bit of fun, flirty secret drama in their life?

#5 Don’t let her know you like her. Many guys make this mistake here. They tell the girl they like her, or that they have feelings for her. Of course, you like her. She knows that already, doesn’t she? You text her all the time, both of you flirt all the time, and she can definitely feel the chemistry.But even though she has a hint that you like her, she needs to hear it from you to confirm her doubts. Play it cool and don’t confess your feelings for her anytime now. Her excitement and curiosity would make her addicted to you. Revealing your affection for her will kill the suspense, which won’t help you in any way.#6 Get into her comfort zone.When you get some alone time with her, sit closer to her and pretend like you didn’t notice how close you’re sitting. You’ve been flirting with her, now you need to get into her personal space to make her feel the $exual chemistry.Touch her arms or her fingers while saying something, place your hands around her waist while sidestepping across her or walking past her, touch her while complimenting her, or hug her for just a second longer while saying goodbye.

#7 Build the $exual tension. By now, she’d feel the $exual tingle each time you touch her accidentally or otherwise. This is where you need to make her crave your touch. Let your hand linger on her back or on her arms as you touch her. Go really close and whisper something in her ear. Speak softly and play with her fingers when no one’s around. Build the $exual attraction right, and she’d turn into putty in your hands!

#8 Play games. If you’ve been flirting with her and feeling her up now and then while sitting next to each other, you’ve seduced her already and you’re in a great place to even take her to bed.

But if you want to play it safe and take it slow, continue to text her late at night. Play a few n*ughty texting games this time around, and initiate them casually. Before you know it, you’d be seducing her while having fun and playing games with her at the same time.

#9 The dirty conversation. You’ve been texting her, flirting with her and seducing her every single night. And if she’s been playing along all this while, this is where you talk dirty and make the big move. Initiate a dirty conversation over the phone. Start simple, and ask her a question that seems innocent, but would definitely lead to something dirty. And before you know it, both of you would be having phone $ex with each other!

#10 Ask her out. Once you’ve had phone $ex with her, you’ve seduced her already. Now all you need to do is make out with each other in person. Ask her out, or tell her you really want to meet her sometime. Make plans to meet up in your place or hers, and avoid going out on a date unless you’re trying to woo her or make her fall in love with you. This is where you need to choose whether you’re looking fora friends-with-benefits relationship or a romance.

#11 Make out with her! And when you finally do meet her*and she knows why you want to meet her*, don’t jump on her right away just because both of you have had phone $ex already.

You may just end up killing the mood, or she may tell you that she’s not feeling the connection, which would take you nowhere. Play it slow, warm up to the act and make sure she’s in the mood before you try to kiss her for the first time.

If you use these 11 steps on how to seduce a woman and get her in bed, you’ll definitely be able to work your magic and seduce her. But remember, this works only if you get her interested in you first. So take it slow, watch her response, and make your move.

Check Out Linda Ikeji and her five hot sisters with her brother

The popular blogger has a rather large family. It’s on record that she has 5 sisters and one brother making them 7 in total.

The siblings seem to get along well together and they came together to take a sibling picture–something you don’t see regularly.

Linda has had an eventful year so far with the whole fiasco with Wizkid which dominated headlines for weeks. The two seem to have patched things up and will probably have a semblance of a cordial relationship.

You can check out the picture of her and her five hot sisters with her brother below.

When You Are No Longer In Love With Someone, Which of these Do You Do?

A lot of times we fall out of love with people, not cos dey did something wrong or offend us, but it just happens for whatever reason. Happened to me several times. Friends use to say i never truly love d person and wot i felt was infatuation. Sighs... Dats so not true. So which of the following do u normally do when ur no longer in love with someone who didn't cheat or offend u? which is d best??

(1) Break up with him/her politely and amicably and not care less about his/her subsequent reaction/melodrama.

(2) Ghost him/her completely: No explanation, u don't call, or pick his call, he never hears from u and never sees u again except u bumped into each other by mistake.

(3) (this one is for guys, don't think women do this one): U keep having sex with her but pretends to love her. U continue to keep dis facade for as long as u like.

(4) U start ignoring him/her: u don't show her love anymore like u used to, u don't give her attention or care, but u don't break up with him/her cos ur not ready for any drama, or u simply don't know how to break it to him/her without making her feel bad.

(5)U force urself to continue to love him/her cos u cant bear to see him/her suffer emotionally.

(6)U dump him/her like a piece of trash! And move on with ur life

GUYZ: These Are 6 Benefits You Get When You Marry a Plus Size ( Fat ) Women

Many men are opting for slim women due to the image the media paints all the time, but men who date plus size women are saying, you’re missing out on something big and here are the 6 benefits you get when you date plus size women.

see them as you continue below……

1: Never Go Hungry: Women with more to love have a great passion for food. They like talking about it, cooking it, baking it, frying it,eating it or dining out for it. All foodie lovers come in different shapes and sizes but some men love taking a woman out and knowing his woman will order exactly what she wants and will finish her food. Not wasting money or food! Eight times out of ten, a bigger woman knows where and how to get the food.

2: Less Mirror, Mirror on the Wall: Apparently,BBW’s can be less superficial and not all about her looks/figure. They seem to not rely on their outer appearance as much in comparison to “gym bunnies”. Big beautiful girls may escape through books, writing, and hobbies. They are not afraid to laugh out loud or be funny. Many men find a BBW relies on her wit, personality, and character to keep you interested outside the bedroom.

3: Bow Chica Wow Wow In The Bedroom Some men say chubby ladies are even better in bεd! Men like the feeling of holding a voluptuous woman in their arms rather than a slender one.

4. She won’t be picked up by any guy: Guys who date slim women often have to fend off guys trying to steal them away. This is something you’ll rarely experience when dating a fat girl since most guys prefer hitting on women who have a body that’s similar to a figure usually reserved for models. As a result, you can go anywhere without fear of having your girl being stolen from you.

5. Opinionated: If you enjoy having a good conversation, you won’t get bored with dating a fat girl. Since most of them are very opinionated, they won’t be shy about expressing their thoughts on a particular subject making your conversation exciting and unpredictable.

6. Enjoys a good laugh: Fat girls are not shy or afraid to laugh. Since they’re not overly concerned about their appearance, they’re not worried about what they look like when they laugh out loud which makes them more fun to be around with. If you’re the type who enjoys injecting humour in a relationship, you can’t go wrong with telling a fat girl your list of jokes and silly quips.

7 Reasons Why it is Difficult Being a Man in Nigeria

If you are a Nigerian who lives in the country, then you would understand that the society places some sort of responsibility on the men. We get to hear people say things like it is not easy to be a man and the sort.

This is because there is an unrealistic expectation the society has as to the way a man should behave and the things he ought to have at a particular period in time. as a matter of face, a Nigerian man’s life is planned out long before he starts to hustle.

If he hustles for too long without having a major break, there is problem. If he does not hustle at all, he is not a man. If he resides to fate, then he is lazy and when a richer man snatches his wife from him, he is considered unfortunate. What then is expected of a man in Nigeria and how best is he supposed to live his life when the public is sentimental about his life style and what he chooses to do at a particular time.

Find below some of the things expected from a man in Nigeria:

1. He should never cry

When he is bereaved, he is expected to hold himself and comport himself. He is not allowed to give in to emotions because it would portray him as being weak. What exactly is he, a robot?Many people believe it is an abomination for a man to cry and being a man in Nigeria means you have to be strong always even when you are dying within.

2. You are less of a man when you are jobless

If you are a man in Nigeria who is jobless, life could become frustrating. You lose the right to air your opinion because you are tagged a recluse as a result of your joblessness. Hanging out with your friends will be impossible because you would no longer be considered a part of them. Your license as a man is being revoked until you have what it takes to measure up to the other men in the society.

3. You must provide for your family

It does not matter if your salary is a little above 50k, you are expected to take care of your family with it, your wife must look good in the society; your parents have done their best taking care of you, now it is your turn to take care of them.
And you had better save part of that money too because your friends expect you to chat over a couple of drinks once in a while. All these would happen to you because you are a man.

4. Attending a reunion while being broke is not allowed

As a man in Nigeria, you are not supposed to let your old friends see you as a struggling person in Nigeria, attending reunions mean you have to be on your best behavior and show everyone you have made something out of yourself. As a man in Nigeria, you are expected to form up to the point where your helper thinks you should be the one helping him.

5. Your wife should never earn more than you

Being a man in Nigeria means you have to kill yourself in order for your family to live. You are a woman’s wrapper if you seek the counsel of your mother and you half of a man when your wife puts food on the table. Being a man here means your wife’s salary must not be more than yours and you must turn her down any time she wants to help with a bill so you do not lose your title. How sickening!

6. You are not allowed to show signs of defeat

As a man, you are to give everyone the impression that you got things under control even if you do not know where you are. You are supposed to live a false life so as to keep up with the expectations they have of you being a man. You should never accept defeat, it is a sign of weakness on your part.

7. You are to be totally useless in the kitchen

Being a man in this part of the world means your duties do not extend to the kitchen. A woman is meant to look after your needs and do everything for you. You are not expected to know how to do simple chores in the house; if you are able to boil water to a hundred degrees, you have done something extraordinary.

He Doesn’t Love You Enough if He Does These 9 Things, no 8 is Very Important (Must Read)

Does he love me enough? Woman always keep wondering if their partner loves them. Even when he keeps assuring her of his undying love, she still has doubts.

Love is a beautiful thing and it’s more beautiful when the person you love, loves you in return.

If he claims to love you, then he needs to support his words with action because talk is cheap. Any man can say the words “I love you,” but it’s his actions that show whether or not he truly loves you.

If you want to know if he truly loves you, then you need to pay attention to how he treats you.

If he does any of these nine things to you, he doesn’t love you enough.

1. He hides things from you, doesn’t include you in his life: If your boyfriend keeps important information about his life from you, he doesn’t love you enough. If he truly loves you, you should

2. He asks you to give up your dreams: If your boyfriend doesn’t support your goals and aspirations, it’s a sign he doesn’t mean you well. If he loves you like he claims, he will want you to succeed or achieve your dreams. A man who loves you won’t encourage you to drop your dreams completely.

3. Cheats on you all the time: If your man loves you, he will find it hard to cheat on you. Even when he is tempted, he will try to resist. If he loves, he would be concerned about your happiness and he knows cheat*ng will jeopardize your happiness. He can’t keep sleeping with other women and claim to love you.

4. He repetitively lies to you: You know he’s telling you lies. He lies to your face even when he is caught red-handed, but you keep believing he will change some day. He may be lying because he doesn’t want to hurt you with the truth but that’s no excuse for lying. If he really loves you, he should be able to trust you with the truth.

5. He asks you to change who you are: He should let you be you. He should make you change your appearance if you’re not comfortable doing so. He should not force you to wear revealing clothes, get a tattoo and pierce parts of your body or any other thing you don’t want to. Your body belongs to you and you should be able to decide what you want for yourself. After all he saw you the way you were before he came after you, why would he now want you to change.

6. Refuses to meet you family and friends: If he really loves you, he will want to be a part of your world and would hesitate to get acquainted with your friends. Yes, meeting the family may be a big step but he would agree to meet them if you’ve been together for months. If he doesn’t want anything to do with your family and friends, it’s a sign that something is wrong.

7. He isolates you from your family and friends: It’s dangerous for him to keep you away from your family and friends. Once a man starts to isolate you from the people who care about you and love you, it’s a sign he is up to no good. If your man is keeping you away from the people who are important to you, he is not loving you in a healthy way.

8. He abuses you physically, verbally or emotionally: Nobody should tolerate violence. You are nobody’s punching bag. Getting hit by man is not a sign that he loves you. You deserve to be treated like the princess you are. Your boyfriend doesn’t love you enough if he has no issues beating you up, insulting you and making you fell less than a human being.

9. You always come last: If your man constantly puts every otherthing before you, he doesn’t love you as much as he claims to. If he loves you, he will spend time with you. He can’t keep choosing his friends over you all the time and claim to love you.